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Should You Combine Your Wedding and Honeymoon? Here’s What I Recommend

For some couples, it’s the dream. For others, a separate honeymoon makes more sense. Here’s how to know what’s right for you.

DESTINATION WEDDINGS

Bonnie Zeigler

3 min read

a group of people tying a tie
a group of people tying a tie

When It Makes Sense to Combine Them

If you’re getting married at a resort that’s beautiful, private, and designed for relaxation, staying put for your honeymoon can be a smart move. You already know the vibe, your bags are unpacked, and you can shift straight from celebration into rest without a single airport or transfer.

I often recommend this option if:

  • You’re staying at a luxury resort with a honeymoon-worthy suite or villa

  • You want to decompress right after the wedding

  • You’d rather avoid extra travel logistics

  • Your destination offers honeymoon-style perks (private dinners, spa days, etc.)

In many cases, I help couples change rooms after the wedding; either to a more secluded part of the resort or a different category that feels a little more special.

When a Separate Honeymoon Might Be Better

For some couples, staying at the same resort doesn’t feel different enough from the wedding. They want new scenery, new energy, and a clear shift from “wedding” to “honeymoon.” And I get that completely.

You might want to separate your honeymoon if:

  • You had a large group of guests and want true privacy afterward

  • You’re craving a completely different destination or type of trip

  • You want to take a break between planning the wedding and the honeymoon

  • Your dream honeymoon destination wasn’t ideal for a group

I’ve also worked with couples who took a short “mini-moon” right after the wedding, followed by a full honeymoon months later. This works really well for those who want a bit of both; celebration now, big adventure later.

A Hybrid Option That’s Worth Considering

One of my favorite setups is what I call the “two-part trip.” This means starting your honeymoon at the same location as your wedding, then transferring to a nearby resort that feels like a totally new experience.

For example:

  • Get married at an all-inclusive beachfront resort

  • Then move to a private villa, wellness retreat, or boutique hotel nearby

This allows you to keep things simple while still creating that “just us” feeling after the wedding. It also gives you two experiences in one trip and I handle all the logistics so it’s seamless.

My Take? Do What Feels Most Like You

There’s no single formula that works for every couple. Some want to keep the energy going, while others crave stillness and solitude. My role is to help you figure out which option supports your priorities, timeline, and travel style, and then make sure it all runs smoothly.

No matter what you choose, I’ll help you:

  • Plan and coordinate guest travel

  • Transition into the honeymoon phase easily

  • Maximize value with resort perks or upgrades

  • Create something that feels intentional and effortless

Let’s Design the Trip That Feels Like Yours

Whether you’re dreaming of a one-stop destination wedding and honeymoon, or want something layered and multi-leg, I’m here to help you build it.

Because this isn’t just a trip, it’s the start of a new chapter. Let’s make it something you’ll always remember for the right reasons.

If you’re planning a destination wedding, it’s natural to wonder: Should we just stay and honeymoon here, too? Or maybe you’re thinking about having your wedding in one location, and your honeymoon in another, or even waiting a few months before taking it at all.

I’ve helped couples navigate all of these scenarios. The “right” choice depends on your travel style, priorities, and how you want the entire experience to feel.

Here’s how I walk my clients through the decision and what I personally recommend based on what matters most to you.

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